Soca Warriors Online Discussion Forum
General => General Discussion => Topic started by: pecan on March 24, 2007, 10:55:44 AM
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I joined dis forum in June 2006, in the hype leading up to de Worl Cup.
At de time, I felt de need to interact with other Trinis and went looking for a virtual social community.
I found de Soca Warriors Football Forum and read de Forum Rules and Guidelines, an promptly forgot about dem ..
On and off, since I join, some differences of opinion between members had degenerated into name calling, finger pointing, an in some extreme cases, have become quite nasty.
So ah decided to review the Rules and Guidline which are prominently kepp at de top of the Soca Warriors Online Discussion Forum
<===== and right dey .... over to yuh left and down a few inches ...
Here are a few of dem and my take on dem - maybe is only a few ppl who tink did is an issue, an if so, den I apolize for bandwidt resources i use up in dis post.
* Any member who is intentionally unpleasant or disruptive may be banned without warning.
I am seeing post dat IMO are intentionally unpleasant ... i en know of any bans but who knows?
* Excessive and unwarranted personal attacks are expressly prohibited. This specifically means any text/post that is blatantly attacking another person on or off the forum, especially in a personal way.
ditto
* Members may not link, in any manner, to sites or images containing pornography, sexually explicit scenes or gross violence.
I have been guilty of dis and a pardnar warn me so I deleted de links
* Trolling is prohibited. Trolling is defined as a member intentionally posting for the purpose of angering and/or insulting other forum members. Trolling only encourages further attacks and does nothing to further the discussion. This includes personal messages.
I see dis happen from time to time ... an in some cases de mods delete de post. In other cases, de post remain.
* The moderators reserve the right to edit or remove any post at any time. The determination of what is construed as indecent, vulgar, spam, racist etc as noted in these points, is at the moderator's discretion.
I realize dis eh a democracy and I join under dose terms so I cyar complain if what i feel is inappropriate is not deemed inappropriate. Mods, I eh complaining .. .allyuh cyar read every post, and I believe dis is all volunteer work ... and I eh paying real money to post here. I jus join the Warrior Nation but the nominal fee of $25 cyar be funding dis site. So if ppl doh like how it run, nobody stopping dem from leaving.
And if yuh have a issue with someting somebody say, den lets try to observe the Rule and Guideline please.
An in case some ppl tink I talking bout dem in particular .. den hole strain.
Joking and fatigue is one ting, I eh talking bout dat, I talking bout everybody who felt inclined to call ppl names, insult, personal attacks - see de rules above.
So I appealing to everybody, take a deep breath before you post in anger. and lets use de forum to allow ex-pats and locals alike to enjoy dis virtual community.
PLEASE
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Mr. P, I am not so big ah woman dat I cyar admit dat I post in anger. I agree wid all yuh have tuh say and I feel until people start tuh call me names directly that I have been respectul to people in my postings. I know is all de commess wid me dat prompt yuh appeal, ah not so foolish.
I doh agree wid everybody and everybody doh agree wid me. Dat is life.
So if I offend you wid any of my posts, den I am very sorry because you have been nothing but respectful to me and everyone else since I started posting on de forum.
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steups.
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steups.
yuh steupsing at de guidelines, my post, or Coco's post?
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This thread is asnine, you're ugly too and you're mom is in love with a cucumber............is that trolling ;D ?
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:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: alyuh ah kah help but laugh at times when ah read some ah the post that alyuh doz plant , why take it so personal suppoze we was in the same room wid the same conversation, what we might ah fight becaz we dont agree wid what he or she say , cum on people let us live , cant we all get along any more .
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*bashes Zulu over the head wid a greazy sangwich loaf bag*
NO!
:whip:
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Now i taking dat personal ,war i did to yuh ,why yuh bashing me fuh wah jus becaz i tryig to make peace . darm queen i din know yuh so violent .
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*dances around you with her lethal jabs*
wha'cha gonna do about it mister?
:devil:
boy dis place have kicks and I now reach. Ah sorry ah miss de previous kicks, it would'ah save meh ah forchune in cafenol...
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Saturday Night at de FORUM
whey foote Zulu and Queen
well yes
I goin for meh Mauby and Popcorn
hole orn eh
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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:rotfl:
my candle buring at both ends tonight. Ah tired and sick but work in meh skin...
no rest for the criminally insane..
Zulu whey yuh?? Come man doh leh meh knock you out in de firse rongs. Keep meh company until ah finish working nuh? Ah have a nex' 30 minutes before meh eye fall out meh ehad.
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I feel Zulu come like Curtis Leben, an he go introduce we to some "yellow poui" oui
is licks sharing tonight :devil: :devil: :devil: :devil:
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let he go fuh he pouie..
ah have a chube'ah lipstick and a credit card...a woman's lethal weapons...
he go back up and run...
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ya right Zulu GORN
by unanimous decision the Champion is ..........
[size=02pt]he reach back yet?[/size] ;D ;D
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nah ah doh want no win by default. Ah go wait till nex' ime fuh a rematch. Leh we call dis a draw...
when P come in de morning an' see how he tread drevay ah go tell him is your fault WC.
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he an I is real Pardnas eh ;)
I tink ya right, watch trouble eh
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dais not my problem... 8)
anyway, ah gorn. Tanks for de lime..
all yuh walk good until...
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Or so yuh serious jus ah minute leh mae get some pepper souce and some grease wait right day queen, :challenge: :challenge: :challenge: yuh playin yuh like thing alyuh hold mae back hold mae back nah man .
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allyuh jokey oui
de way de thread mash up illustrate dat we have a set a rules dat nobody is take on or want to enforce .unless de discretion of de moderators is tweaked.
So why publish rules if de doh mean nuttin? jus a rhetorectical question
Anyway ... know I know de rules .. I OK because I eh go fret myself
ah wonder how far i cud go????
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doh stress it. yuh could attack people even cuss here, but it have to more or less address de thread.
when it eh have nutten resembling anything in de tread dat is ah serious violation.
ah hope yuh understand de long standing culture...o f**king K?
lol
and de steups was fuh de righteous one...not you.
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Zulu...jes tuh answer yuh question about taking ting personal. I doh take ting personal until people call my name or direct at me. That is by definition personal. For de most part, I mehself enjoy de lime on de forum. Is de only time ah does get ah chance tuh talk Trini and not have tuh repeat mehself or reorganize meh words.
What I doh enjoy is cyber bulling especially when it directed at me.
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allyuh jokey oui
de way de thread mash up illustrate dat we have a set a rules dat nobody is take on or want to enforce .unless de discretion of de moderators is tweaked.
So why publish rules if de doh mean nuttin? jus a rhetorectical question
Anyway ... know I know de rules .. I OK because I eh go fret myself
ah wonder how far i cud go????
pecan u hadda take a deep breath. as u rightly said coming in here is your choice. i think by and large de mods doing a good job. some things might slip through the cracks.
people does be cussin and getting on...is trinis and ithink it eh mater what forum u go on will see some bacanal.
however direct, unwarranted, openly malacious attacks si somehting else. first time i see that since i been coming in here.
some forumites may bring more attention to themsleves with thier posts or tone or content of thier posts. either u chose not to take it on....or jus dont read thier posts.
be like de dasheen leaf is my philosophy in here.
even though some people may fret yuh spirit u cyah take it on..is a virtual world oui. jus logg off if u eh like it.
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Maybe the perpetrator ,is ah illuminati he says he's ah ole member .
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Maybe the perpetrator ,is ah illuminati he says he's ah ole member .
if u dissapper now..lol
i go know y...poofff
no more compre ever
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Maybe the perpetrator ,is ah illuminati he says he's ah ole member .
if u dissapper now..lol
i go know y...poofff
no more compre ever
;D Daiz y I behave myself and doh tell knowbody nothing nah ,cause if that ever happen it gobe ah sad day :'(
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:puking: :yapping:
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if allyuh take ah look..yuh go see dat we TTFF saddist gorn.
He shouldnt ah mess with de man from Virginia..I kow people.
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:rotfl: :rotfl:@know people
cant he just come back on with anoter name?
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Just be glad they use discretion and not strict enforcement:
Public posts debating these rules and/or moderators enforcement of such, will be removed without comment. We encourage feedback however and invite you to use the Personal Message feature if you have any questions or concerns.
Otherwise I wudn't ah be able to post that an all ;D
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Just be glad they use discretion and not strict enforcement:
Public posts debating these rules and/or moderators enforcement of such, will be removed without comment. We encourage feedback however and invite you to use the Personal Message feature if you have any questions or concerns.
Otherwise I wudn't ah be able to post that an all ;D
good point
.. jus to clarify .. i wassen debating de rules so much as I was trying to appeal to ppl to observe dem
but I cool with de rules ... If i doh like dem, I am free to leave or as Hoe say, doh read and log off ..
ah have to admit, it was de post by TTIF_Saddist dat got me going ... inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale ... I am a hollow reed ....
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inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale ... I am a hollow reed ....
:rotfl:
well it look like saddist schizophrenia get cure :D
I wonder if dey go eventually reveal demselves :thinking:
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dat fella really acted like he had issues.
i eh know maybe de woman hit him ah butt or she turn him down in d epast.
lol
de man had venom..oui. if he did tone it down he message woulda get though loud and clea, instead it get lossed in anger and maybe bitterness?? ??? ???
unrequited love??hmmmmmmmmmmm
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*comes back in and looks for Zulu*
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hmmm like i arrive late.
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Yuh come back bugin me again ah dey right here yer feel ah fradin yuh , leave me alone, yuh want to mash up the people them thredd and yuh lookin for company call yuh gul trinicana .not me ah not in dat wid yuh.
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Yuh come back bugin me again ah dey right here yer feel ah fradin yuh , leave me alone, yuh want to mash up the people them thredd and yuh lookin for company call yuh gul trinicana .not me ah not in dat wid yuh.
Padna who you dere with ?
i trying to make sense outta non sense and all of ah sudden meh handle call ?
but what dey jail is dis
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doh worry wid Zulu...
Me and he had a noise and ah beat he over he head wid ah Coelho shopping bag till he run! He went and get P to help he control meh but it was more war because ah break away and expose meh warrior skills and den WC come to talk meh dong but ah say NAH. Finally de moderators had was to step een and delete all de bloodshed awf dis peaceable board.
Girl...
yuh had to be dere...
Dis is only my version of what take place eh? But from now on Zulu have to call meh Mistress Queen Macoomeh..he fraid meh left jab...
never see ah man bleed so yet nuh. After de knock dong, referee dcs akse he what day it was an' Zulu answer payday.
but as you can see, all dem posts get delete...
ah hear ah man faint and had was to be carry away by de medics...he name TT sadsack or someting so...
doh say I say eh? Ah only trying to explain yuh what went on. Hope yuh unnerstand.
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Trinidad Express
Monday, March 26th 2007
Don't be wrong and strong - say sorry (http://www.trinidadexpress.com/index.pl/article_opinion?id=161121050)
I've noted over some years some things which the UK has managed better than T&T and some things that T&T has managed better than the UK. Though there are more representatives of the different races in the UK relative to T&T, for example, I still feel the average T&T citizen has a better appreciation for racial diversity. Also in general, up to the time I left T&T, folks were more openly warm to each other in public situations, e.g in public transport or at a cricket match where strangers start conversations so easily; in the UK, folks hide behind reading material or headphones. If there was one thing I'd wish the UK could take from T&T it's this genuine warmth.
If there's one thing I wish T&T could take from the UK it's the ability to apologise. I don't think the average T&T person has a problem recognising when they're wrong. It's what we do afterwards: we top the world in our ability to be "wrong-and-strong''. It doesn't matter what social class we belong to. We may think it's more often to be found in, for example, government ministers and other senior public officials, but only because their behaviour is more widely pubicised via the media. Wrong-and-strong attitude is rife in corporate and business settings; it's a root cause for poor customer service. It's also present in family situations; how many domestic violence events would've been prevented if folks just knew how to eat humble pie and say sorry immediately after learning they did wrong?
In the UK, it is surprising how often folks say sorry, and genuinely mean it. For example, when there was a rail crash recently that investigators reported to be caused by poor maintenance practices, the first thing the CEO of the responsible company did was say sorry for the pain and inconvenience caused, both directly to injured persons and families and the general public. In service companies, when you make a complaint the first thing they do after listening to you is to say sorry for the inconvenience caused and then work with you on a proper response plan. I think it is this frequent, not just because of the amount of business competition, but because in the family situations children are taught to say sorry when appropriate and society continues to expect it of adults in general. The rest of society would cry shame on the offending individual if they didn't say sorry.
In contrast, in T&T a public official saying sorry might cause shock because of how rarely it happens. When was the last time a Government Minister said sorry when they were clearly wrong? When a company gives poor service, they use cold phrases like "it is regretted'' and then proceed to re-state their policy even though the policy may be wrong or wrongly applied; at other times it's just silence or, worse, open hostility. Recently, we had a parent jailed because he chose to hit a teacher for disciplining his child instead of confirming the facts and supporting the need for discipline.
(I just hope in a few years time that father doesn't have to cry outside a courtroom because their child was charged for a crime since they effectively learned how to be wrong-and-strong).
Perhaps we need to develop more positive ways of handling shame that doesn't lead to wrong-and-strong behaviour. It doesn't need to start from public officials; start at the family level and then demand apologies when folks do wrong.
Edmund Nigel Gall
London
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
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:applause: :applause:
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
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:applause: :applause:
yuh clapping like ah little bitch
yuh eh sorry fuh alluding dat saddist was me!
i feel yuh jockey shorts have rosette on dem
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Good post there Cana
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
if i may cana.
i know alot of things may get lossed in translation over the net but that ahppens in person also.
if u have to define apology
write a letter about maturity, accpetance and moving on. then is it worth it
if as adults u eh have a basic grasp of those concepts then it to late.
if your an adult with kids and dont have agrasp of those concepts yuh children should be taken away.
all adults act immature at some time in different ways i think that is a necessity, but childishness different from immaturity (and ah not definig childish ;D).
It goes back to everybody have thier own opnion. The concern is how u express your beliefs and if u try to ram it down some ones throat subtly or forcefully.
some have th egift of tact other either have it and chose nto to use it or havent learnt the the art.
anywhere poeple assemble it will ahve conflict on some level, this thread getting realyreally s lly now, but i expect some very interesting points and views to come out so i will be looking on.
I think its more about tolerance of one anohter than maturity etc etc. however i also know somethings shouldnt be tolerated.
:)
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
if i may cana.
i know alot of things may get lossed in translation over the net but that ahppens in person also.
if u have to define apology
write a letter about maturity, accpetance and moving on. then is it worth it
if as adults u eh have a basic grasp of those concepts then it to late.
if your an adult with kids and dont have agrasp of those concepts yuh children should be taken away.
all adults act immature at some time in different ways i think that is a necessity, but childishness different from immaturity (and ah not definig childish ;D).
It goes back to everybody have thier own opnion. The concern is how u express your beliefs and if u try to ram it down some ones throat subtly or forcefully.
some have th egift of tact other either have it and chose nto to use it or havent learnt the the art.
anywhere poeple assemble it will ahve conflict on some level, this thread getting realyreally s lly now, but i expect some very interesting points and views to come out so i will be looking on.
:)
Thank you for your thoughts Hoe...
You throw some points...others i disagree with.
Let's forget about this thread for now, because i have no idea what happened in here, and honestly i don't want too.
If i may, let's take you and I for example....now before I get jam, ah just using ya handle.
We have known each other vitually for almost a year. We agree and more disagree within that year. I consider myself a strong minded woman. If i have my points to put on the table, I will and have put it down. You have the choice of accepting it or ignoring and move on. Same with me. Why must there be a conflict between us because you don't like my points or how i put down my points ? I think that show your materity level or lack thereof. Can't we just talk ?
People apologize to me too, I generally do the accept them because they generally are heartfelt. Others I just view as words with nothing behind it, but I do move on. Could this be some level of maturity also ?
Hoe I'll come in in here and post my thoughts, whether i'm right or wrong - it's been posted. I didn't come in here to TELL you to agree with me. That is your choice. I would assume we all have a mind of our own to make our own decisions and not ride on what other people say.... well i hope so.
A question to you
Why should there be an acceptance to "conflict ?"
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
if i may cana.
i know alot of things may get lossed in translation over the net but that ahppens in person also.
if u have to define apology
write a letter about maturity, accpetance and moving on. then is it worth it
if as adults u eh have a basic grasp of those concepts then it to late.
if your an adult with kids and dont have agrasp of those concepts yuh children should be taken away.
all adults act immature at some time in different ways i think that is a necessity, but childishness different from immaturity (and ah not definig childish ;D).
It goes back to everybody have thier own opnion. The concern is how u express your beliefs and if u try to ram it down some ones throat subtly or forcefully.
some have th egift of tact other either have it and chose nto to use it or havent learnt the the art.
anywhere poeple assemble it will ahve conflict on some level, this thread getting realyreally s lly now, but i expect some very interesting points and views to come out so i will be looking on.
:)
Thank you for your thoughts Hoe...
You throw some points...others i disagree with.
Let's forget about this thread for now, because i have no idea what happened in here, and honestly i don't want too.
If i may, let's take you and I for example....now before I get jam, ah just using ya handle.
We have known each other vitually for almost a year. We agree and more disagree within that year. I consider myself a strong minded woman. If i have my points to put on the table, I will and have put it down. You have the choice of accepting it or ignoring and move on. Same with me. Why must there be a conflict between us because you don't like my points or how i put down my points ? I think that show your materity level or lack thereof. Can't we just talk ?
People apologize to me too, I generally do the accept them because they generally are heartfelt. Others I just view as words with nothing behind it, but I do move on. Could this be some level of maturity also ?
Hoe I'll come in in here and post my thoughts, whether i'm right or wrong - it's been posted. I didn't come in here to TELL you to agree with me. That is your choice. I would assume we all have a mind of our own to make our own decisions and not ride on what other people say.... well i hope so.
A question to you
Why should there be an acceptance to "conflict ?"
i think because conflict is a natural process. We all have differing opinion right or worng good or bad. its inevitable that thier will eb conflict. and conflict can eb progressive and beneficial.
as i said i think its all about tolerance especially about views and ideas. u eh bound ot like the person.
as i see it if you dont want to have any conflict what so ever then u have to live as a hermit.
but even then u will ahve some conflict. anytime things interact there is conflict.
in an appempt to clarify..- we even have conflict with inanimate objects, when u tyrign to open a jar and u cant and u strianing and getting vex dais a conflict.
accepting conflicts on certain levels is a necesity. maybe its how u go about it which is the key.
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
if i may cana.
i know alot of things may get lossed in translation over the net but that ahppens in person also.
if u have to define apology
write a letter about maturity, accpetance and moving on. then is it worth it
if as adults u eh have a basic grasp of those concepts then it to late.
if your an adult with kids and dont have agrasp of those concepts yuh children should be taken away.
all adults act immature at some time in different ways i think that is a necessity, but childishness different from immaturity (and ah not definig childish ;D).
It goes back to everybody have thier own opnion. The concern is how u express your beliefs and if u try to ram it down some ones throat subtly or forcefully.
some have th egift of tact other either have it and chose nto to use it or havent learnt the the art.
anywhere poeple assemble it will ahve conflict on some level, this thread getting realyreally s lly now, but i expect some very interesting points and views to come out so i will be looking on.
:)
Thank you for your thoughts Hoe...
You throw some points...others i disagree with.
Let's forget about this thread for now, because i have no idea what happened in here, and honestly i don't want too.
If i may, let's take you and I for example....now before I get jam, ah just using ya handle.
We have known each other vitually for almost a year. We agree and more disagree within that year. I consider myself a strong minded woman. If i have my points to put on the table, I will and have put it down. You have the choice of accepting it or ignoring and move on. Same with me. Why must there be a conflict between us because you don't like my points or how i put down my points ? I think that show your materity level or lack thereof. Can't we just talk ?
People apologize to me too, I generally do the accept them because they generally are heartfelt. Others I just view as words with nothing behind it, but I do move on. Could this be some level of maturity also ?
Hoe I'll come in in here and post my thoughts, whether i'm right or wrong - it's been posted. I didn't come in here to TELL you to agree with me. That is your choice. I would assume we all have a mind of our own to make our own decisions and not ride on what other people say.... well i hope so.
A question to you
Why should there be an acceptance to "conflict ?"
i think because conflict is a natural process. We all have differing opinion right or worng good or bad. its inevitable that thier will eb conflict. and conflict can eb progressive and beneficial.
as i said i think its all about tolerance especially about views and ideas. u eh bound ot like the person.
as i see it if you dont want to have any conflict what so ever then u have to live as a hermit.
but even then u will ahve some conflict. anytime things interact there is conflict.
in an appempt to clarify..- we even have conflict with inanimate objects, when u tyrign to open a jar and u cant and u strianing and getting vex dais a conflict.
accepting conflicts on certain levels is a necesity. maybe its how u go about it which is the key.
hmmm
Then we should asked ourselves it is necessary, and what would be the postive outcome of it. right ?
What happen, people just don't know how to converse with one another without 'rising' their voices ?
thats very sad, won't you say so ?
I can't see a 'conflict' being benefical. Benefical to who ?
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Another letter could talk about 'How to accept an apology and move on.'
I know where you going....
What about a letter on "maturity"
or
one about "definition of an apology"
or
one about "acceptance"
or
one about "MOVING ON"
i await your response. :beermug:
if i may cana.
i know alot of things may get lossed in translation over the net but that ahppens in person also.
if u have to define apology
write a letter about maturity, accpetance and moving on. then is it worth it
if as adults u eh have a basic grasp of those concepts then it to late.
if your an adult with kids and dont have agrasp of those concepts yuh children should be taken away.
all adults act immature at some time in different ways i think that is a necessity, but childishness different from immaturity (and ah not definig childish ;D).
It goes back to everybody have thier own opnion. The concern is how u express your beliefs and if u try to ram it down some ones throat subtly or forcefully.
some have th egift of tact other either have it and chose nto to use it or havent learnt the the art.
anywhere poeple assemble it will ahve conflict on some level, this thread getting realyreally s lly now, but i expect some very interesting points and views to come out so i will be looking on.
:)
Thank you for your thoughts Hoe...
You throw some points...others i disagree with.
Let's forget about this thread for now, because i have no idea what happened in here, and honestly i don't want too.
If i may, let's take you and I for example....now before I get jam, ah just using ya handle.
We have known each other vitually for almost a year. We agree and more disagree within that year. I consider myself a strong minded woman. If i have my points to put on the table, I will and have put it down. You have the choice of accepting it or ignoring and move on. Same with me. Why must there be a conflict between us because you don't like my points or how i put down my points ? I think that show your materity level or lack thereof. Can't we just talk ?
People apologize to me too, I generally do the accept them because they generally are heartfelt. Others I just view as words with nothing behind it, but I do move on. Could this be some level of maturity also ?
Hoe I'll come in in here and post my thoughts, whether i'm right or wrong - it's been posted. I didn't come in here to TELL you to agree with me. That is your choice. I would assume we all have a mind of our own to make our own decisions and not ride on what other people say.... well i hope so.
A question to you
Why should there be an acceptance to "conflict ?"
i think because conflict is a natural process. We all have differing opinion right or worng good or bad. its inevitable that thier will eb conflict. and conflict can eb progressive and beneficial.
as i said i think its all about tolerance especially about views and ideas. u eh bound ot like the person.
as i see it if you dont want to have any conflict what so ever then u have to live as a hermit.
but even then u will ahve some conflict. anytime things interact there is conflict.
in an appempt to clarify..- we even have conflict with inanimate objects, when u tyrign to open a jar and u cant and u strianing and getting vex dais a conflict.
accepting conflicts on certain levels is a necesity. maybe its how u go about it which is the key.
hmmm
Then we should asked ourselves it is necessary, and what would be the postive outcome of it. right ?
I can't see a 'conflict' being benefical. Benefical to who ?
to everyone. mankind. alot of um necesary things came out fo conflict.
as i said i think the key is how we go baout dealing with the conflict..ie disagreements.
if you and person ahev a disagreement and u enter a ocnflict..say ha verbal sparing match..over somethign that is "small" then is it worth it to get to the pt on being down right dirty and an ass. or jus continuing the disccsuion albeit heated and trying to come to some resolution or even argreeing to disargee?
on the other hand on a large scale conflict it might be necesary to be as ruthless as possible and get it over and done with.
dais what i think.
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alright...thanks for your thoughts.
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at least dat ended on ah fair note without conflict :rotfl: :rotfl:
i agree wit d law enforcement ... n ah tink it's the job of us all (as a virtual family) 2 do d neighborhood watchin and report all crimes to d mods ...
it's jus my opinion ... dais all :angel:
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at least dat ended on ah fair note without conflict :rotfl: :rotfl:
i agree wit d law enforcement ... n ah tink it's the job of us all (as a virtual family) 2 do d neighborhood watchin and report all crimes to d mods ...
it's jus my opinion ... dais all :angel:
girl, not all neighbours on the same page. so i'll say to you, not everybody that skin and grin with you is ya neighbour, so just watch your own backside.
and if necessary shoot to kill. :beermug:
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Ok..so ah read every response in dis thread...so is just one question left to ask?
Exactly who mudder in love wit de cucumber?
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This thread is asnine, you're ugly too and you're mom is in love with a cucumber............is that trolling ;D ?
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: all yuh is the worse oui
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Ok..so ah read every response in dis thread...so is just one question left to ask?
Exactly who mudder in love wit de cucumber?
de man mother..lol
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ah know ah real late eh
ah know allyuh does laugh at everything in here, but tell meh someting nah
that mother talk with ah cucumber wasssss ah joke or something serious ?
ah jus fass...allyuh excuse meh little bit eh.
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ah know ah real late eh
ah know allyuh does laugh at everything in here, but tell meh someting nah
that mother talk with ah cucumber wasssss ah joke or something serious ?
ah jus fass...allyuh excuse meh little bit eh.
lol he was tyring to say the thread sily and being scarstic
is what i think...
better yet instead of i asusming anyhtign better u ask de man who say it oui
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ah know ah real late eh
ah know allyuh does laugh at everything in here, but tell meh someting nah
that mother talk with ah cucumber wasssss ah joke or something serious ?
ah jus fass...allyuh excuse meh little bit eh.
lol he was tyring to say the thread sily and being scarstic
is what i think...
better yet instead of i asusming anyhtign better u ask de man who say it oui
well me ain't want to assume and laugh as YET
so hopefully PantherX go answer meh.
nice
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ah know ah real late eh
ah know allyuh does laugh at everything in here, but tell meh someting nah
that mother talk with ah cucumber wasssss ah joke or something serious ?
ah jus fass...allyuh excuse meh little bit eh.
lol he was tyring to say the thread sily and being scarstic
is what i think...
better yet instead of i asusming anyhtign better u ask de man who say it oui
well me ain't want to assume and laugh as YET
so hopefully PantherX go answer meh.
nice
to put tings in perspective .. there were angry provocative posts in another thread .. I responded, TT suggested that de mods delete dem, den dey got deleted.
Den I started dis post essentially appealing to de community to repsect the rules and guidelines.
PanterX replied and I decided to view his statement as an illustration on de definition of trolling. He was "provoking me" by making comments about the thread, my appearance and my mother (and potentially my father).
In one shot he insulted me an my parents ...
hence his question .. is what he did trolling?
but his "grin" at the end suggested that he was making a joke and I chose to view it as such.
Maybe he did not see the posts dat get deleted by de mods so could not place did thread in context?
But since dis come up, I curious to see wat he go say.
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ah know ah real late eh
ah know allyuh does laugh at everything in here, but tell meh someting nah
that mother talk with ah cucumber wasssss ah joke or something serious ?
ah jus fass...allyuh excuse meh little bit eh.
lol he was tyring to say the thread sily and being scarstic
is what i think...
better yet instead of i asusming anyhtign better u ask de man who say it oui
well me ain't want to assume and laugh as YET
so hopefully PantherX go answer meh.
nice
to put tings in perspective .. there were angry provocative posts in another thread .. I responded, TT suggested that de mods delete dem, den dey got deleted.
Den I started dis post essentially appealing to de community to repsect the rules and guidelines.
PanterX replied and I decided to view his statement as an illustration on de definition of trolling. He was "provoking me" by making comments about the thread, my appearance and my mother (and potentially my father).
In one shot he insulted me an my parents ...
hence his question .. is what he did trolling?
but his "grin" at the end suggested that he was making a joke and I chose to view it as such.
Maybe he did not see the posts dat get deleted by de mods so could not place did thread in context?
But since dis come up, I curious to see wat he go say.
I see...
thanks for the explaination...
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any body love breadfruit?
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any body love breadfruit?
fried wid salfish
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over ripe bread fruit...pull out de middle, rub ah little sweet oil n de middle...let it rest in de hot sun fuh ah little while...and boy...dat is good
loving errr, ah mean food.
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allyuh ever stone breadfruit in Toco?
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allyuh ever stone breadfruit in Toco?
i stone starch mango in toco..dat good enoguh :P
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any body love breadfruit?
yeah I fell out ah breadfruit tree once...... ;D
allya ever have breadfruit stuffed with spiced ground beef and then baked?
oh gaum dat sweet