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The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die

by Sasha Brown-Worsham
What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn't?

I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23.

Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.

I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me.

Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die.

1  Kiss a girl
2  Have anal
3  Have a threesome
4  Engage in group sex
5  Have phone sex
6  Masturbate
7 Use a vibrator
8 Use a sex toy on someone else
9 Be tied up
10  Tie someone up
11  Have sex in a public space
12  Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
13  Sex in a car
14  Sex at a drive-in
15  Mile-high club
16  Sex with a stranger
17  One-night stand
18  Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)
19  Sex on a boat
20  Sex in a body of water
21  Light spanking
22  Read erotica
23  Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
24  Sex in the shower
25  Sex standing up against a wall
26  Sex with no kissing
27  Sex in the pitch black
28  Sex in the broad daylight
29  Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin
30  Sex in a tent in the wilderness
31  Watch porn together
32  Watch porn alone
33  Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
34  Sex on the beach
35  Blindfolds
36  Using ice sexually
37  Sexual role play
38  Whipped cream
39  La Perla lingerie sex
40  Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
41  Sex with someone much older
42  Sex with someone younger (legal!)
43  Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
44  A quickie in a skirt
45  A longie in the rain
46  Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
47  Feather ticklers
48  Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
49  Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
50  Silent sex in a full house


How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #1 on: September 03, 2014, 01:38:10 PM »


Ok folks ..take your time and give us your Bucket list...

Hmmmm I wonder if Flex or Tallman should start first.... :rotfl:

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #2 on: September 03, 2014, 03:59:22 PM »


Ok folks ..take your time and give us your Bucket list...

Hmmmm I wonder if Flex or Tallman should start first.... :rotfl:

Why you doh start?
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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #3 on: September 03, 2014, 07:10:46 PM »


Ok folks ..take your time and give us your Bucket list...

Hmmmm I wonder if Flex or Tallman should start first.... :rotfl:

Why you doh start?

My notation was meant in jest ...I dont expect a response  thus my  :rotfl:

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #4 on: September 03, 2014, 09:21:58 PM »
Soca, it cold in Canada?  ;D
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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #5 on: September 03, 2014, 10:04:20 PM »
Reminds me of the purity tests we used to do in college.
of course they're online these days: http://www.puritytest.org/test/500/

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #6 on: September 03, 2014, 10:10:49 PM »
Soca, it cold in Canada?  ;D

Naw its not cold yet.... :rotfl:

Oh my I just found out another 25 entries can be added...will post them tomorrow... :rotfl:
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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #7 on: September 04, 2014, 12:23:37 PM »





The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die
by Sasha Brown-Worsham


Four years ago, I wrote our first sexual bucket list post highlighting 50 things we should do sexually before we die. To say it went viral would be a major understatement. The list took on a life of its own, garnering more than 800 comments, hundreds of thousands of shares and views, and syndication galore.

The truth is even I, the author of the piece, have not tried all 50. Has anyone really? It's an extensive list and not one that's easy to get through, especially if you've committed to marriage and monogamy early in life. So instead of saying we MUST do these things, let's say instead that we should be open to the possibilities. Is this a checklist that you have to complete in order to die happy? Probably not. But it's certainly fun to try!

Look at it as a way for you and whomever your partner may be -- spouse, boyfriend, stranger -- to open your minds and expand your repertoire. We give you the ultimate sexual bucket list of 75 sex acts to try before you die ...

sexual bucket list



And 25 more!!
 
51. Sending naked photos to each another
52. Talking really dirty
53. Sex while someone is watching
54. Teasing your partner to the point of orgasm, over and over
55. Really loud sex
56. Sex in a favorite position
57. Sex in a new position
58. Orgasming at the same time
59. Sex with deep emotion and love
60. Spending all day naked
61. Not sleeping all night
62. Sex on the floor
63. Sex while no one else knows you are doing it
64. Trying the 69 position
65. Sex with a condom
66. Sex without a condom
67. Oral sex with mints
68. Sex in the back of a movie theater
69. Sex with someone you're angry at
70. Masturbating during sex
71. Having sexy nicknames with your partner
72. Using a dildo and your man -- at the same time
73. Feeding someone sexually
74. Sex in a chair
75. Sex with constant eye contact

How many of these have you tried? How many do you want to?


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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #8 on: September 04, 2014, 12:29:25 PM »


Some comments from readers of this column.... :rotfl:



BGarcel July 24 at 5:43 AM
I've done most of these. All that only involve one person. Am I a slut? No. Do I care if catty, miserable bitches call me a slut? Nope. So bring it on.



Nonmember comment from skyinnc July 24 at 7:21 AM
Done many of these. A few left to go. Im in a committed relationship and we both are open to interesting ways to keep things hot and spicy. Ill be 40 soon he will be 31. I think its great to experiment together but safety is a must. Use protection!




Mom of Three CJD July 27 at 8:52 AM
   First of all, I didn't see anything that said these all had to be done while married! Second of all, lighten up people. If you are here commenting, you came to read the list. Everyone if different, sexually. Doing all of these does not make you a slut, doing only one of these, does not make you a prude. What happens in someones bedroom, is none of anyone else's business anyway. I say...Live and Let Live, Ladies. As long as you are happy and fulfilled, that is all that matters.

   In case anyone cares, I am at about 2/3 of these. Nothing that involves strangers, watching people, people watching me, or mutiple people here. But, all the power to you..if that's your thing!



Dragonmamas July 27 at 1:58 PM
I'm pretty disappointed in this list, in particular due to the fact that society finds having sex with multiple people and/or strangers as something you should do. What happened to self respect?

But looking past my conservatism, I have knocked out about 50 of these either alone or with my fiancee. We have an amazing relationship and our sex life plays a big role in that - as it should:)



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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die
« Reply #9 on: September 04, 2014, 12:30:50 PM »
Soca, it cold in Canada?  ;D


Barataria .... :rotfl:

I updated the list it up to 75 now ....

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His Top 10 Secret Sex Wishes
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2014, 12:33:34 PM »
His Top 10 Secret Sex Wishes
by The Stir Bloggers February 27


Redbook polled about 5,000 married men and then 5,000 married women to find out the secrets of their sex lives.

One flattering result: More than half the men say they lust after their spouses as much as they did when they met. Some want their wives even more than they used to.

What goes on inside male brains? Here is what Redbook found out about his top 10 secret sex wishes.

Enthusiasm. Three things here: He wants us to like having sex with him. He'd go ape wild if we initiated sex more often. And he would like a little more sponteneity and a little less convenient sex. (Sorry, DH. I admit that sometimes I schedule it.)

Variety. Try something new. Pick up a new sex book and read it together. Laugh and make jokes while you do it. Try out some wacky sex positions. Do any little or big thing to change things up every other month.

Adventure. Be very, very naughty. Some ideas from Redbook: X-rated videos, rest-room quickies, playful spankings. What's a good fantasy? How can you play it out in light-hearted but adventurous ways?

Generosity. I think this means he wants us to give him more oral sex. Women reported that they'd like a little more of that, too.

Authenticity. Faking orgasms is a no-no. Making like you're having fun when you're not is another unsexy thing to do. Speak up, tell him what you want and like. He'll love you long time for it.

Attention. Make time to bond, not just in bed but at other times, too. Talk when the kids go to bed. Watch a TV show together. Make a glass of tea or maybe vodka every once and a while when the house is quiet. (Vodka is better than Lost this season anyway.)

Courage. Talk openly if one of you wants more sex than the other. Reach a compromise. Then talk about it again soon. The person who gets rejected--and it can be the man or the woman who wants it more--feels badly if you don't talk. And definitely just take those clothes off and do it whenever you can.

Confidence. This is the sexiest--and cheapest--thing you can wear to bed. Own that body of yours. Own what you can do with it. If you work it, he will enjoy the ride.

Physical Attraction. He's not worried about what you weight. He just wants you to maybe not wear those sweat pants so often. Believe him when he says you're beautiful and sexy. And, hey, it doesn't hurt to have sexy hair, too.

Get Away. Can you go on a second honeymoon? Me neither. But maybe you can spring for a sitter and get a hotel room. You just need a getaway--however big or small--everyone once and a while to reconnect. And to have great sex.

What do you need more of in bed?  hmmmm

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Re: His Top 10 Secret Sex Wishes
« Reply #11 on: September 04, 2014, 12:37:06 PM »



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g-manae March 1,

I would love it if this all worked.  I have talked to my husband about more sex, once or twice a month is NOT enough for me.  He works seconds (12 hr. shifts) and I work firsts alot of times putting in 10 hr. days.  On his days off he sits and plays football or war games on the computer until the middle of the night.  It is hard for him to go to bed when I do since it is way to early (around 11) all he does is lay there tossing and turning.

All I ask is that he come to bed, make love then he can get back up and do whatever.  99% of the time I go to bed alone.  During most of our conversations about having sex we both end up laughing.  Probably because we know it won't happen.


madamekatekate February 27,

Mine can be awful lazy, God bless 'em.

He would be thrilled to death if I did EVERYTHING and he could just lay there and take it, lmao.

I could use more oral myself. He doesn't much care to do it evidently...But if I can suck it up (forgive the pun) and give him a blow job whenever, I think he could try a it harder to reciprocate.


bagjmama February 27,

There is something to be said for getting a hotel room just to have sex with your hubby!  It's a refreshing and liberating change and I can't wait till DH and I can do it again!

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #12 on: September 04, 2014, 06:38:42 PM »
What kinda jokey list is that?  ;D

No cuckolding with BBC?
No furries?
No dress up?
No BDSM?
No vegetables?
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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #13 on: September 04, 2014, 06:42:10 PM »
What kinda jokey list is that?  ;D

No cuckolding with BBC?
No furries?
No dress up?
No BDSM?
No vegetables?

So educate us ?... :rotfl:


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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #14 on: September 04, 2014, 07:07:11 PM »
What kinda jokey list is that?  ;D

No cuckolding with BBC?
No furries?
No dress up?
No BDSM?
No vegetables?

So educate us ?... :rotfl:


so which one you or yuh husband interested in? lol
wait..lemme guess..the BBC right? ;D
I could send yuh some websites if yuh want connections  :devil:
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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #15 on: September 04, 2014, 07:37:06 PM »
What kinda jokey list is that?  ;D

No cuckolding with BBC?
No furries?
No dress up?
No BDSM?
No vegetables?

So educate us ?... :rotfl:


so which one you or yuh husband interested in? lol
wait..lemme guess..the BBC right? ;D
I could send yuh some websites if yuh want connections  :devil:


BBC..what is dat ?...British Broadcasting Company ... :rotfl:


You know I ran across these two articles on one of my Staff desk , thought they were
hilarious and decided to post them in a thread... :rotfl:

I haven't had the time to read the full 75 Suggestions as yet , but I will , I might even
engage hubby in a conversation about this thread ..that should be interesting.

Naw not interested in such web sites ... :rotfl:

Wait a minute here ..now what are you doing on such sites ....huh huh ...

now this should be an interesting reply...I await... :rotfl:

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Re: The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before You Die. Updated..
« Reply #16 on: September 13, 2014, 12:33:55 PM »
What about swinging and somebody letting u bull they guy or wife while they look
soon ah go b ah lean mean bulling machine.