When life throws you lemons, pick them up and make lemonade.
Look at the survivors of the Tsunami, hurricanes Katrina, Rita, Wilma, Pakistan's earthquakes etc.
Through all the tradegy there is faith, hope and love.
Remember the true meaning of Christmas is that the God we believe in manifests himself through his son Jesus whose birth heralds the forgivness of original sin. Through whatever trials one has God doh Sleep. He is working his greatness for you all the time. Keep the faith.
Merry Christmas