First of all, let me say that I have great respect for Everal Gally Cummings. I believe, as many as you do, he is one of the best local footballers of all time and perhaps even one of the best local coaches of all time (He took a local, home grown side, refused to use any foreign base players and nearly got us to the World Cup).
However, Gally should understand that it is Beenhakker's choice to choose if he wants to come or not. Beenhakker has come, done his job and achieved his objectives. It is up to Beenhakker to decide if he wants to come back for the cermonies or go back to Holland.
Gally should not criticise the man for his choice. Beenhakker has done his job.