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Every adult pass the stage you are in right now.
Some was fortunate to have parents who still cared.
Some wish their parents were around to give advice
Some had no choice but to grow up quickly to take care of their siblings, because is either parents died, single parent, both working, and dey just didn't care.
What you have infront of you is parents who obviously care bout the first born GIRL child. Yes dey want to keep you under their feet, yes they want to protect you in every possible way (i would also, look at TNT today), you feel like you are in a straight jacket, and you under a microscope constantly.
Again, every adult pass this stage you are in right now.
I going personal here.
My parents are stll both alive, and when I was still at home, you know the saying "2 man rat cyah live in the same hole" , well that was my mother and I. Both very head strong and confident bout views and mental strength....in other words WWIII
But today I'm aboard and to tell you the truth, I thank God for those WWIII sessions because if it wasn't for her, I won't have been strong or prepared to face the world today. Now I'm not saying everything parents say are right, some of them still stuck in the 70s. But if you really listen and understand, is just that they want the best for you, and as parents they have the right to protect you....even if you have man, ya married, ya have kids: they will have the right to protect their youngas.
When they gone, you are considered an ophan....remember that, so take in everything you can when they are here.
I gone