It might sound like an overly simplistic view, but I find all the debate over whether or not what Suarez said was racist or offensive to be moot.
Perception is reality. If a grown ass man i don't know uses the term "negro" or "negrito" or "negrite" or whatever de fork he say to address me, and I interpret it as racially offensive, then it is totally on him.. No ifs, ands or buts.
I'll give an example of a situation that happened to me a couple years back at my job in NYC.
I managed the IT desk at a small company in Soho. Now I cant speak for the typical corporate work culture in NYC on the whole, but the working culture at this company and in the industry on the whole was one where colleagues were always unnecessarily effusive with the praise and compliments to colleagues, to the point of being very fake and overbearing.
Anyway.. This one evening at work, a staff colleague comes by my desk to ask if I had a blank CD to spare. As i reach below my desk to check, she starts going on about how I'm so great at my job and always on top of things, and hits me the typical "You're the best!" line as is par for the course.. But then she proceeds to say the following.. "No really.. You're a beautiful person. You're a credit to your race."
Well that line make me sit up straight. I responded, "Excuse me??"... Then she repeats it, and proceeds to explain its a line from a movie called Scoop. If I had never heard about it. I responded "No" abruptly, hand her the CD then she left.
Well i don't think anything for as long as i could remember boil my blood like that, and i'm a man slow to anger. I sit down there stewing, i was livid, i couldn't even function after that and it is first time in life i genuinely ever felt insulted about my race. Could not even stay at my desk, had to go outside for a breather, I man studying to blast the woman publicly or take ah run up in the HR office all kinda ting.
I eventually confronted her in the office, took her into a closed room and asked her to explain what her statement was supposed to mean. She explained that the line was from a movie and meant, you're a credit to your race as in the "human race", and not what I thought and wanted to carry me to google it etc. I had to explain to her that it did not matter, she needed to understand how me hearing that, not knowing the point of reference would interpret that. Meh girl nearly break down in tears, "i'm so sorry, i'm not like that, i'm not that kinda person" etc etc... I end up leaving that there.
Anyway, the bottom line is.. I did google it some days after and it is a line from a movie and it does mean what she said. No racial connotation whatsoever. But does that matter?
That whole defence Suarez and Liverpool touting about he used the term in a kinda pardna context (notwithstanding he an Evra was in confrontation and he even pinch Evra skin while saying what he said) is a heap of bullshit. I hear Dalglish in a press conference yesterday talking about Suarez wife does call him that. Oh please. Where is the line to be drawn? Any club fan could say that in his country, monkey chants is a common scene and use that as justification. It shouldn't be taken as racist.
Even if i was to go so far as to believe Suarez was using the term innocently, if as a result of his absolute ignorance someone feels racially abused by his statements then he needs to accept responsibility for that. Imagine we arguing, and part and parcel of your retort is to use the term "negro" and you want people to believe that is pardna vibes. I have Uruguyuan friends and none of them ever venture to call me that in conversation, and if they did I watching them funny. Plain talk.